"What does my ex-wife need from me?"
We broke up two years ago, without conflict. Both have everything worked out safely, we have nothing to share, but at any case asks me to give her some trifle. It comes to funny: "True, if you can, my old hammer". I don’t feel sorry for a hammer, I just can’t understand.
Something suggests that your ex-wife is a highly consistent person, reliable, slightly "fucking" in detail and is not forgetful anything – all this can be called a bore, petty.
I do not take to guess what it is necessary for her from you now, but it seems that to the funny minor requests – this is part of a long ritual of completing her relationship with you and the house that has been and her house for a long time. When it appeared "old hammer"? If he was part of the "dowry", another aspect is visible in his return: life continues, there is something in it, the usual, which cannot be destroyed by any everybody storms.
Having taking his own, man as if restoring his own "I". In a situation where people had a total farm, common interests, durable habits and installation, such recovery may be important. Of course, all this more or less corresponds to reality, only if for these two years such appeals to you all the same gradually went to no.
Your ex-wife need something not quite from you (we are not about some new requests, inappropriate in the current situation). Rather, her feelings and actions are drawn to a whole period of life, which is psychologically not yet completed. Perhaps you have this process faster, but because you are very different people, for you not new.